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VOLUNTARY MODEL CODE OF CONDUCT

All of us are grown up, mature and educated people. As such, we must excercise self restraint when expressing our views and posting them in here. However, on occasions, a few cross the dividing line between decency and rudeness. This leads to expulsion from this networking site or at times black listing the members.

What I propose is a model code of conduct and hope we all voluntarily adhere to it.

1. We will be polite and courtceous to each other.

2. We will never indulge in personal slanging match.

3. We will use polite, civilised language in our post, refrain from using abusive words.

4. We will give due respect to our female members as we give respect to our female family members.

5. We will stick to the topic being discussed and not deviate from the subject.

6. We will respect other's point of view as we would expect them to respect our own.

7. We will NOT join youbihar creating a fake profile, funny name and no profile photo.

8. We will try to change ourselve for better in our conduct, speech and clear, honest thinkingin keeping with the change in the fortune of Bihar.

9. We will not write anything deregatory about other people caste, religion and values which hurt them.

10. We will always conduct ourselves with dignity.

I hope this would meet with approval of all. Any observation and comment is most welcome.

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Permalink Reply by Shyam N Singh on March 15, 2011 at 12:40am

It is great effort on you part Dr Ajay Kumarji. I hope it does not go in vain.

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Permalink Reply by Shalu Sharma on March 15, 2011 at 1:26am

There is a terms of service at the bottom of the page, but this seems like an expansion. Good idea indeed.

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Permalink Reply by Anil Kumar Giri on March 15, 2011 at 8:24am

KARAT KARAT ABHYAS KE JADI MAT HOTH SUJAN

RASARI AVAT JAAT SE SEEL PAR PARAT NISAN

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Permalink Reply by Bikram Yadav on March 15, 2011 at 11:20am

Self disassociation from youbihar.com

From Dr. Ajay Kumar to Alok Singh, Shalu Sharma, Rajesh K.Pathak, ABHISHEK KUMAR SI…,AMITANAND SINGH and 165 more…
Sent Jan 2

Dear Pathak ji and Mrs. Sharma,

I may be new to this site but I am much too older than almost all members here. Added to this, I have just become a first time grandfather on Christmas day. So I feel old enough to offer this sermon. Although many people of my age go bald or grey, I am lucky to have 70% black hair. The remaining 30% did not turn grey in sun, but because of life's experience.

From that very experience I am going to tell you both, as well as those who care to listen. It takes great courage to say "I am sorry" or " My aopology". Saying this does not demean the person but it raise them in esteem of others. It also sets an example to be followed by others.

We all make mistakes. To err is human. T realise this and apologise is what puts an individual above common mortals. Choice is entirely ours. Do we want to be in select band of enlightends or we want to remain lesser mortals. Speaking for myself, during my professional career, I have averted many unpleasant situations by apologising to patients or their relatives. Failure to do so would have led to complain and diciplinary hearing. Having said all this, and substantiated byy examples, I hope good sense will prevail.

Dr. Kumar

kyon dr.Kumar when you had imposed self exile how did you return to youbihar by invitation - by request or self realisation or unable to digest your frustration in the belly.

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Permalink Reply by RANISH KUMAR on March 15, 2011 at 11:32am

it could be only possible in grand mom's tales

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Permalink Reply by Dukkhan Chamar on March 15, 2011 at 12:55pm

JYON RAHIM SUKH HOT HAI, UPKARI KE SANG,

BATAN WARE KO LAGE JYON MEHANDI KE RANG.

Anil Kumar Giri said:

KARAT KARAT ABHYAS KE JADI MAT HOTH SUJAN

RASARI AVAT JAAT SE SEEL PAR PARAT NISAN

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Permalink Reply by Dukkhan Chamar on March 15, 2011 at 12:57pm

hum nahin samajhte ki aap ko sab kuchh dikhaii de raha hai ya fir aap sab kuchh jante honge.

DHANANJAY KUMAR PANDEY said:

ram jee ajay jee to change kar chuke hain khud ko ye to aapko change karne ke liye likhe hain.unke dil me to bas pyaar hi pyaar hain.aap nafrat mat jagaaie.aap samajh rahe hain naa mai kya kahna chaah raha hoon?

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Permalink Reply by CHALU CHAMAR on March 15, 2011 at 1:17pm

चलती चक्की देख कर…दिया कबीरा रोय…………दुई पाटन के बीच में…साबुत बचा ना कोय ॥

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Permalink Reply by CHALU CHAMAR on March 15, 2011 at 1:21pm

एक कहूँ तो है नहीं…दूई कहूँ तो गारी…………है जैसा तैसा रहे…कहे कबीर बिचारी ॥

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Permalink Reply by Shalu Sharma on March 15, 2011 at 2:30pm

What are you saying? You have a fake profile and a name.

RAM said:

Doctor Ajay Kumar first change yourself and then expect others to change.

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Permalink Reply by CHALU CHAMAR on March 15, 2011 at 2:36pm

Kya kehati hain aap..........fake ka hi dusra naam hai BIHARI....''kitna bhi bada bada baat karen sach se hum ghabarte hain,isliye hum FAKE hain''

Shalu Sharma said: