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SEX , YOUTH AND OUR SOCIETY

i##I I feel my age and qualification entitles me to initiate a debate on this issue. In the land of Kamsutra and Khajuraho, Sex is a taboo topic, sin to talk openly and look down by all as if it is pornography.

Biologically speaking, sex has one most important fuction for which God willed and gave us. It is to reproduce and maintain the existence of Homo sapiens. Love,marriage, courtship, Khajuraho, sexual enjoyment as per Kamsutra are all human invention.

There is no sex education in our schools. Vast majority of our youths are totally ignorant of their own body.

Making love is just a tiny part of sex education. This education teach the anatomy and physiology of male and female organs, how and when hormonal changes takes place in the body and what effects it has, when is a male and female body mature enough to recreate another human being. What are sexually transmitted disease and how to avoid them.

Express your views and don't forget to mention your own knowledge and experience of the subject.

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Permalink Reply by Ram Prakash on February 17, 2012 at 7:33pm

india is the land of sex, fun and frolic but we do not like to talk about sex and love making. even thought it is on the walls of the temples at khajuraho. for us it is ok to do everything behind closed doors. I am a virgin so dont know much about sex. there is one girl in my mohalla whome I really like but how to say please advice.

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Permalink Reply by Rohini on February 18, 2012 at 1:11am

we all want sex. most men actually think of sex all the time. I dont. being indian we dont talk about it with parents or anyone.

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Permalink Reply by Munna Lal on February 18, 2012 at 9:29am

Dakter Saheb, our sex education begins in our adolescence. Thereafter, females become sex objects. Don't forget, we are Indians Hum log kambal orrh kar ghee peetey hain. I won't say mor otherwise Shalu Bahan ji will censor my post and many female members ( if there are any real ones ) will leave this site altogether.

Munna Lal Kedia

MA, MA, MBA

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Permalink Reply by Munna Lal on February 18, 2012 at 9:36am

Very true Madam. When I am abroad, I find this youbihar site advertising all known Dating sites. They all have photo of very beautiful girls in inviting, suggestive pose. Ukranian girls are the best, followed by Chinese girls. Our Bihari girls come nowhere. High time they are given sex education like Ukranians and Chinese girls.

Rohini said:

we all want sex. most men actually think of sex all the time. I dont. being indian we dont talk about it with parents or anyone.

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Permalink Reply by Munna Lal on February 18, 2012 at 9:46am

Waaah.....waaaah, Astavakra. Yaaney ki din mey rishta kucch aur, raat mey rishta kucch aur. Aur kambal orrh kar ghee peena hamaari adat hai. Ganaa suna hai na, "Choli ke peecchey kya hai..." Same as that, "Langoti ke peecchey kyaa hai...." Microscopic auzaar waaley ko kyaa kahtey hain, maalum hai na ?

Neeraj Singh said:

india is the land of sex, fun and frolic but we do not like to talk about sex and love making. even thought it is on the walls of the temples at khajuraho. for us it is ok to do everything behind closed doors. I am a virgin so dont know much about sex. there is one girl in my mohalla whome I really like but how to say please advice.

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Permalink Reply by Ram Prakash on February 18, 2012 at 10:38pm

aabe mota ghee tum jaa ke pettooo. shakal se tho khandani chor lagta hai. kabhi khagual se bahar nahi nikla hai ye mota baat karta hai chinese aur ukranian ladki ka. ha ha.. jaa jaa apna muh mei kaaruwa thel laga lo.

Munna Lal said:

Waaah.....waaaah, Astavakra. Yaaney ki din mey rishta kucch aur, raat mey rishta kucch aur. Aur kambal orrh kar ghee peena hamaari adat hai. Ganaa suna hai na, "Choli ke peecchey kya hai..." Same as that, "Langoti ke peecchey kyaa hai...." Microscopic auzaar waaley ko kyaa kahtey hain, maalum hai na ?

Neeraj Singh said:

india is the land of sex, fun and frolic but we do not like to talk about sex and love making. even thought it is on the walls of the temples at khajuraho. for us it is ok to do everything behind closed doors. I am a virgin so dont know much about sex. there is one girl in my mohalla whome I really like but how to say please advice.

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Permalink Reply by Munna Lal on February 18, 2012 at 11:53pm

Arrey O' Asthawakra Langotiwala. Tum ees site peer Kabaab me haddi ki tarah ghoosa hua hai. Maan na maan, mai tera mehmaan. ghatiya kism ka aadmi ghatiya kism ka post leekhta hai. Reservation quota se tum GGMP ka degree le kya leeya ki apney ko tope smajhney lagaa hai. Pata hai ki GGMP kisko kahtey hain > Gheench Ghaanch ke Matric Pass, yaaney GGMP.

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Permalink Reply by Ram Prakash on February 19, 2012 at 12:06am

aare yaar ye site tumhare baap ka hai kya. jab dekho humko gaali deta chalta hai. din raat kutte ki tarah bhokte rahta hai. mera choro mera business hai dairy products ka. iss liye humko chota aadmi maat samjho. tum apna fake degree apnay G mei ghusa lo. get real my friend wake and smell the cofee the only longtotiwala is you. have you seen yourself in the mirror lately, bilkul chor lagte ho. khadak singh dakuu.

Munna Lal said:

Arrey O' Asthawakra Langotiwala. Tum ees site peer Kabaab me haddi ki tarah ghoosa hua hai. Maan na maan, mai tera mehmaan. ghatiya kism ka aadmi ghatiya kism ka post leekhta hai. Reservation quota se tum GGMP ka degree le kya leeya ki apney ko tope smajhney lagaa hai. Pata hai ki GGMP kisko kahtey hain > Gheench Ghaanch ke Matric Pass, yaaney GGMP.

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Permalink Reply by Munna Lal on February 19, 2012 at 2:56am

Ab samjhaa Bihari Baklol. Tum gwalaa hai, jaat ka Aheer. Gai - bhains ko chrataa aur doodh duhtaa hai. Tab to avashya hi tum reservation quota wala jantu hai. Khair, koi baat nahi, gwalaa ho, Langoti hi pahney raho. Dudh duhney me asaani hogi. Do akhchar angreji kya parh leeya ki apney ko Dairy wala kahney lagaa. Tum confuse to nahi hai Bhai ? Dehri - on - Sone mey rah kar apney ko Dairy merchant samajhney lagaa hai ?

Aur suno Bhai, Tum GGMP thahrey, aur woh bhi reservation quota waaley. doble MA aur MBA waalo sey mooh nahi lagaa karo. Kahaan Raja Bhoj aur kahaan Bhojwa Teli.

aare yaar ye site tumhare baap ka hai kya. jab dekho humko gaali deta chalta hai. din raat kutte ki tarah bhokte rahta hai. mera choro mera business hai dairy products ka. iss liye humko chota aadmi maat samjho. tum apna fake degree apnay G mei ghusa lo. get real my friend wake and smell the cofee the only longtotiwala is you. have you seen yourself in the mirror lately, bilkul chor lagte ho. khadak singh dakuu.

Munna Lal said:

Arrey O' Asthawakra Langotiwala. Tum ees site peer Kabaab me haddi ki tarah ghoosa hua hai. Maan na maan, mai tera mehmaan. ghatiya kism ka aadmi ghatiya kism ka post leekhta hai. Reservation quota se tum GGMP ka degree le kya leeya ki apney ko tope smajhney lagaa hai. Pata hai ki GGMP kisko kahtey hain > Gheench Ghaanch ke Matric Pass, yaaney GGMP.

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Permalink Reply by 3lqg38eqx5ig4 on August 16, 2012 at 10:01am

The problem with this approach is we like sex. Heck, most of us love sex! Secretly and sometimes not so secretly it's our favorite hobby and pastime. So if we talk about sex of course we have something in common. If we talk about what we like and don't like the other person probably knows what we're talking about. They might even get excited about it, unlike say if you were talking about your favorite TV show and the other person hated it the conversation would fizzle out pretty quickly. If you can have sex 24/7 and never have to talk this wouldn't be a problem, but let's face it, most of us need to find something else to do for the other 23 3/4 hours of the day and it's much more important to find out you both have a passion for baseball before you find out about a passion for hot candle wax and leather wrist cuffs. For me it's makes a relationship much more interesting and passionate when you can share everything else first and discover the sex part later.

So how soon is too soon? Well, it's different for everyone, but if I may give a piece of advice gentleman: If you're hinting about it and she's ignoring your hints it's still too soon.

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Permalink Reply by Samvad HIV/AIDs helpline on August 17, 2012 at 5:19pm

In the school and college level sex education should be given to children. It is always better to educate them on this subject so that they know the pros and cons of sex. If proper sex education is given unwanted pregnancy in teenage girls can be avoided and also, prevent sexually transmitted diseases specially AIDS.