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How real is love at first sight?

You've probably heard the pickup line, "Do you believe in love at first sight, or should I walk by again?" Although this line probably has a low success rate, it does get the point across for this topic.

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Permalink Reply by Abhishek on November 26, 2010 at 1:05pm

This line is no subject for discussion. It can not be deliberated. If it befalls on one, celebrate it. Otherwise there is no contemplating. And for the doubt, answer may come from the rare ones who had it.

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Permalink Reply by Azad Ansari on November 26, 2010 at 5:43pm

i don't believe in this thing at all.......... our parents will better 2 judge in this regard.............

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Permalink Reply by 06ki4glv55rjt on November 26, 2010 at 5:48pm

love is not a topic it is relation of heart

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Permalink Reply by Himanshu B. Pandey on November 26, 2010 at 6:01pm

Dil ka Aalam Mai kya Bataun Tumhe.............

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Permalink Reply by Himanshu B. Pandey on November 26, 2010 at 6:53pm

Jwani Jindabad.

Anil Kumar Giri said:

Somvar ko hum mile
Mangalvar ko nain
budh ko meri nind gaye
jumeraat ko
chain
Shukar - Shani kate muskil se
aaj hai aitvar
Saath dino mein ho gaye jaise saat janam ka pyar.

success of love marriages depends on your personal bonding mine is love marriage and happily going on for one decade.

This is my experience

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Permalink Reply by jayant kumar singh on November 26, 2010 at 7:00pm

love at first sight is not bad, but it should be in limit. it should not be allowed to heart their family & community because you must have some responsibility to them.

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Permalink Reply by Abhishek on November 26, 2010 at 8:45pm

Arranging things for us is what parents can do for us. How can they prevail upon your feelings dear? Yes, it is possible that it may not materalise the way you want because your parent don't want.
Azad Ansari said:

i don't believe in this thing at all.......... our parents will better 2 judge in this regard.............

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Permalink Reply by Abhishek on November 26, 2010 at 8:46pm

Fakes?!
Anil Kumar Giri said:

Only Qualified and Eligible people to speak and write about first love are people who are working in Call Centres and BPOs' rest all are...........................................................................

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Permalink Reply by RAJKUMAR SINGH on November 27, 2010 at 3:42am

गणित समझना आसान है . उसमे दो से दो जुड़ कर चार ही होते हैं .यह प्यार का गणित मुश्किल होता है .इसमें कुछ का दावा है की दो दो नज़रें मिलीं और दिल एक हो गया .पहली बार देखते ही प्यार होने का दावा कईयों से सुना और उनमे से कुछ एक को कुछ वक्त के बाद भुला देने का योग भी देखा .
मेरा ख्याल है की प्रकृति के तमाम अन्य प्रजातियों की तरह हम भी एक प्रजाति हैं और शोध बताते हैं की वक्त वक्त पर ' सेलेक्सन ऑफ़ द बेस्ट ' ही करते रहते हैं या ' रेजेक्सन ऑफ़ द अननेसेसरी ' .जीनोमिक ज्यादा बढ़िया उत्तर देता है पर उसे उद्धृत करना ' संस्कार ,संस्कृति ,परंपरा आदि आदि वादियों ' से अनचाही भिडंत करा सकता है . अतः अपन का दूर से सलाम .
वैसे अंधे प्यार से वंचित ही रह जाते होंगे क्या ? उनकी तो साईट ही नहीं होती :) .

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Permalink Reply by kumari neha on November 27, 2010 at 8:23am

i believe in love at first sight. getting to know someone is only part of love. true love is holding that person close in your heart day and night. dreaming of them, thinking of ways to make them happy and content, letting them know how much you love them. being prepared to die for them.

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Permalink Reply by Rajesh K.Pathak on November 27, 2010 at 10:13am

'Nile gagan ke tale is dharti par kewal pyaar hi pale'!

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Permalink Reply by Abhishek on November 27, 2010 at 12:55pm

Since the bug did not bite me, I am no authority to deliberate on it. I can only repeat what I have read in books. To my mind, one does not do any thing in such esoteric state of mind. Wantings just happen. And true lovers don’t prepare to do things perhaps, let alone die. Yes, they simply be in the state of total surrender.